Built for families living across two homes
Less conflict.
More childhood.
One calm, shared space for schedules, expenses and the everyday details that help your children feel secure.
Free to begin. No credit card needed.
Private by design
Made with families
Focused on children
Everything in one place
The practical side of parenting, made gentler.
Keep the details clear and the conversations constructive. So there is more room for what really matters.
Shared calendar
Every event, every handover, one view.
Custody schedules, school events, activities and handovers live in a single shared calendar. Both parents see the same information. No more conflicting spreadsheets or missed pickups.
- See who has the children on any given day
- Add events with child, time, location and recurrence
- Travel events with destination, flight details and approval status
- Calendar syncs custody ownership across alternating weeks, 2-2-3 or custom patterns
Message reframing
Say what you mean, without the heat.
Before a message leaves your screen, the reframe tool rewrites reactive language into something your co-parent can actually hear. Tone analysis labels every message so you can see how it might land.
- Adjustable reframe intensity: light, moderate, or full
- Tone labels: hostile, defensive, frustrated, anxious, neutral, cooperative
- Optional cooldown timer holds messages before sending
- Suggested replies for incoming messages
“You NEVER bother checking if she has her inhaler. Do you even care?”
“Could we add the inhaler to the handoff checklist so it is covered every time?”
Expense tracking
Every pound accounted for.
Log shared costs, attach receipts and see the running balance between both parents. Adjustable split ratios per expense. Disputes stay in their own thread, separate from the main conversation.
- Categories: childcare, education, healthcare, activities, clothing and more
- Receipt uploads with each expense entry
- Acknowledge, dispute or propose a different split
- Settlement recording when balances are paid
Custody schedules
Always know whose day it is.
Set up alternating weeks, a 2-2-3 pattern, or a fully custom arrangement. Both parents see the same schedule. Propose swaps when plans change, with a clear approval flow.
- Swap requests with approve, decline and counter propose
- Travel notifications with destination, dates and flight details
- Handoff reminders with location, time and pickup responsibility
Handoff checklists
Nothing left behind at the door.
Create a reusable packing and pickup list for each child. Both parents check off items during every transition so the essentials travel with the children.
- Per child templates with custom items, descriptions and notes
- Check, skip or add a note to each item during handoff
- Completion tracking with history of past handoffs
- Both parents confirm the handoff is complete
Decision queue
Important choices deserve their own space.
Medical appointments, school enrolment, travel permission, extracurricular activities. Each decision gets its own thread so discussion stays focused and nothing gets lost in the message stream.
- Categories: medical, education, activity, travel and other
- Each decision has its own discussion thread
- Approve, counter propose, or request more information
- Optional cost and deadline fields
Holiday scheduling
Holidays planned, not fought over.
Assign major holidays, birthdays and school breaks with custody notes for each. Both parents see the arrangement at a glance, with room for next year's notes so plans carry forward.
- Major holidays, birthdays and custom dates
- Custody notes per holiday for both parents
- Next year planning notes alongside current arrangements
- Holiday markers visible on the shared calendar
Both handovers were calm. Ella said she felt happy going between houses.
Start packing the night before so mornings are less rushed.
Weekly reflections
A quiet moment to take stock.
At the end of each week, note what went well, what you would do differently, and what you have been avoiding. Over time, patterns emerge that help you co-parent more intentionally.
- Private to you, never shared with your co-parent
- Mood tracking on a simple scale
- AI generated insights after several entries
- History of past reflections to track progress
Document storage
Parenting plans and court orders in one place.
Upload the documents that define your arrangement. Parenting plans, court orders, mediation agreements and child records stay organised, private and accessible when you need them.
- Categories: parenting plan, court order, mediation, child records
- Upload any file type with secure storage
- Link documents to specific children
- Access from anywhere without digging through email
Professional sharing
Your therapist sees what you choose.
Share selected data with a therapist, mediator or solicitor. You choose the exact scopes they can access and you revoke at any time. They see what helps, nothing more.
- Invite by name, role and email
- Select which data categories to share
- Track whether the professional has connected
- Revoke access instantly when no longer needed
Exportable records
Download what you need, when you need it.
Export communication records, expenses, schedule changes and compliance data on demand. Choose a date range and content types, then download as PDF or CSV. Share directly with a solicitor if needed.
- Content types: messages, decisions, expenses, checklists, schedule changes, compliance
- Filter by date range
- PDF and CSV export formats
- Share exports directly with legal professionals
Ready for calmer co-parenting?
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