The Parenting Apart blog

Communication

Practical, calm messages about the children's day to day needs.

Communication guides

Setting healthy boundaries around messages between two homes

Clear boundaries around messages help both parents stay informed without constant back and forth: agreed reply times, one channel, and notifications set up to suit you.

4 min read

A weekly reflection habit for parents living apart

A few minutes of private reflection each week helps parents living apart notice patterns, plan calmer responses, and keep the children's needs in view.

2 min read

What is parallel parenting, and when does it help?

Parallel parenting means each home runs its own routine with limited, structured contact between parents. Here is how it works, when families use it, and how to keep it practical.

3 min read

How to write practical messages about the children

Keep messages about the children short, specific, and focused on one arrangement at a time, so the other home can reply clearly and in their own time.

2 min read