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Schedules

Planning weeks, holidays, and changes to the usual routine.

Schedules guides

How to ask to change the custody schedule

Children's needs change as they grow. Here is how to propose a change to the regular custody schedule in a way the other parent can consider fairly.

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How a 2-2-5-5 custody schedule works

A 2-2-5-5 custody schedule gives each home the same two weekdays every week and alternates the weekends. See the full pattern and how to test it.

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Custody schedule examples: choosing a pattern that fits your family

Compare common custody schedules, including alternating weeks, 2-2-3, 5-2-2-5, and every other weekend, and how to choose one that suits your children's ages and routines.

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Planning school holidays across two homes

Plan school holidays early, write the dates into a shared calendar, and use a clear request process for swaps so children know where they will be.

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